“How deep you go
Has nothing to do with thinking
but with a will to do so. “

As I write this blog post I listen to the song ‘Omarm me’ from BLÖF. It can be so wonderful to listen to Dutch music. The text touches me. I understand what the singer wants to tell. I feel the same way.

How deep you go has nothing to do with thinking

Love can be difficult. It happens to you. You can’t choose it and you certainly can’t turn it off. Most of the time, love happens at a time you do not expect it at all. When your life is a total chaos, suddenly he is there. How are you going to deal with that? Do you run away from it or do you let it happen? Running away from it might seem the easy way out . Because, you get self conscious: am I nice enough? I am an emotional wreck, first I have to get my life in order.

Reverse thoughts

But what if you put these thoughts aside? Think: that chaos belongs to me right now, but it doesn’t define me. If someone really wants to be with you, then he or she accepts you for who you are. Everyone has baggage, right? Don’t overthink it. Because if you really want it, you have to go for it. In one of my previous blog posts I wrote about karma. When karma sends you something beautiful you have to accept it.

Embrace me

The highlight of the song is to feel two arms around you. To let love flow through your veins and let it take away all your pain. Arms that allow you to sail to another dimension. Sometimes that is the only thing you need. A hug of the right person lets your body revive and gives you new energy. Sometimes it even feels like there are lightning bolts going through your body. These electric charges provide warmth. Warmth that you might not have felt for a while. At the same time, that hug can also give hope. Hope that it will be fine and you do not have to do it alone.

Love at any time of the day

Nothing is better than having someone next to you who loves you. Someone you can love at any time of the day. Someone who can stop you from worrying by taking you to the universe of love. There is no rush, no time, no gloom.

Only you and me.

Quote with this story: And embrace me, embrace me, embrace me. – BLÖF

Love, Ghyta

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By telling others about my own experiences, I hope to support people that deal with mental disorders in their own process. I find it important that mental illnesses are recognised as real diseases, even though they might not be visible to the eye.

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